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[-NM-] SPACEHERPES
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| 08-18-2012 11:02 PM / profile
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Originally posted by: Bibimbap
Get married... then us married men can commiserate with you.
I know far more friends who are still married than divorced... but maybe that's just because I'm happily married with kids, minivan, and NO MORTGAGE!!! (woohoo!)
I was engaged for 3 years and my ex fiance had 2 sons so I got to see the whole domestic thing first hand. I hated it. It was too much work, compromising and other bullshit. I also did not like some of her friends and the feeling was mutual. Also, at the time I had a lower paying job than I do now and her family looked down on me so I hated to spend time with them. Her mothers side are all Jewish and her Aunt lived in a very nice house and were just fake fuckers.
After a long days work and having to deal with schmucks, the last thing I wanted to do was spend my time off or holidays with more schmucks.
Im happy now, I make ok money and maybe in the next year or so, I will get promoted to department head and make between 65-70k depending on the volume of the store I work in.
Now if I can only stop drinking so damn much 
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burn!
Actual Veterinarian
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| 08-18-2012 11:25 PM / profile
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Originally posted by: [-NM-] SPACEHERPES
Now if I can only stop drinking so damn much
Don't you ever leave the only friend you can always count on
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RomneyBot
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| 08-19-2012 01:57 AM / profile
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The plan is to marry august 27 at the justice of peace. We just need to get the license and we are good to go. I just told my mom tonight. Immediately after my twins wedding. Lol.
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Neechoo Cheeska
Pepperoni please
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| 08-19-2012 02:40 AM / profile
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Originally posted by: [-NM-] SPACEHERPES
compromising
That is the one word that best describes my aversion to relationships.
I have to compromise 5 days a week in my professional life. Hold down a job, report to a boss, do what they tell me, sit in my little cube, blah, blah, blah. So I refuse to compromise in my personal life. I do what I want, when I want, spend money on the things I want, and nobody can tell me "no".
I doubt I could ever give up that level of freedom after this many years.
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Cocytus
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| 08-19-2012 03:57 AM / profile
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Originally posted by: [-NM-] SPACEHERPES
Now if I can only stop drinking so damn much
I read this book and quit smoking. It's been exactly 1 year since I quit.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Easy-Way-Stop-Smoking/dp/1402718616
Cigs are the hardest fucking thing to quit and I know because I've been hooked on everything except heroin. Ok, unless you have a heroin problem, then it should be easy. Just replace everywhere it talks about smoking with drinking.
Cig = drink
smoking = drinking
etc...
I read the book once and thought about it for a while. Read it again and did exactly what the book said to do.
It's a good book that can apply to many things in our lives.
I have about two beers every year. I don't even think I drank last year. Maybe I'm lucky that it just doesn't interest me as much as other things.
Good luck if you do plan on quitting.
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[-NM-] SPACEHERPES
TeamWarfare Vet
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| 08-27-2012 06:50 PM / profile
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Originally posted by: Cocytus
Originally posted by: [-NM-] SPACEHERPES
Now if I can only stop drinking so damn much
I read this book and quit smoking. It's been exactly 1 year since I quit.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Easy-Way-Stop-Smoking/dp/1402718616
Cigs are the hardest fucking thing to quit and I know because I've been hooked on everything except heroin. Ok, unless you have a heroin problem, then it should be easy. Just replace everywhere it talks about smoking with drinking.
Cig = drink
smoking = drinking
etc...
I read the book once and thought about it for a while. Read it again and did exactly what the book said to do.
It's a good book that can apply to many things in our lives.
I have about two beers every year. I don't even think I drank last year. Maybe I'm lucky that it just doesn't interest me as much as other things.
Good luck if you do plan on quitting.
Im not sure if I will ever quit but Im gonna go back to only drinking maybe 1-2 times a week if that.
Its tough for me man, it is tough.
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eXplicit
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